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                                                                                     Christmas trees and
                                                                                    mistletoe – yes or no?
                                                                             Community members chime in.
                         WITH ME!                                                       BY AMORNRAT SIDHU












                                                                                            SIMREN BHARARA
                                                                                      (NARISA SINGHNARULA)
                                                                                        Secondary School English Teacher



                                                                             Embracing the Holiday Cheer
                                                                             For me, Christmas is all about meaningful
                      he meaning, or shall I say, the ‘feeling’ of Christmas,   get-togethers, each with its own festive
                      has  changed  over  the  years,  luring  all  in  with   theme. On Christmas Day, we spend
                      Thailand’s commitment to the brightest lights, iconic   time with family, gathering around a
                  trees, classic carols, and reds and greens. Regardless of   beautifully-decorated tree with presents
                  your faith, it’s become all-encompassing, seeping its way   piled underneath. It’s a day filled with

                  into the Thai-Indian community more and more. How do       love, laughter and tradition. We enjoy
                  Thai-Indians get into the festive spirit?                  a full Christmas dinner with turkey and
                  We asked a few to chime (and jingle) in.                   all the trimmings – a proper British
                                                                             Christmas! Watching The King’s Speech
                                                                             (the annual address to the UK by their
                                                                             monarch) has become a cherished part of
                                                                             the day, and the excitement is infectious,
                                                                             especially for the children.
                                              SUKHMANI EUANANRAK             In the run-up to Christmas, we love
                                              Assistant Production Manager,

                                              Unifine Creations Co., Ltd.     taking our son to see Santa’s Grotto,
                                                                             admiring the dazzling Christmas lights
                                                                             and decorations that brighten up London.
                                                                             With colleagues, we keep the festive
                                            Getting into the Festive Spirit
                                                                             spirit alive by having a Christmas dinner
                                            Christmas is one of my favourite festive   at a cosy pub, complete with a turkey
                                            seasons. It’s the season of spreading   roast  menu,  and  exchanging  ‘Secret
                                            joy,  bringing  in  positive  vibes,  and   Santa’ gifts. When it’s time to celebrate
                                            welcoming the end-of-year holidays.   with friends, we organise a big Christmas
                                            I  put  up  a  Christmas  tree  at  home   lunch where everyone wears their best
                                            and decorate it the way I want. I get   Christmas jumpers. Gifts for the kids
                                            dressed up in holiday colours and put   are exchanged.
                                            on Christmas music, and try to enjoy
                                                                             Staying Grounded at Christmas
                                            the festive season with my family.
                                                                             Living in the UK, a predominantly-Christian country, we embrace Christmas as a
                                            I Won’t Cross This Line
                                                                             widely-celebrated holiday. For us, the focus is less on the material value of gifts and
                                            Everyone has their own way of getting   more on appreciation and togetherness. While Christmas has undeniably become a
                                            into the festive spirit. The holiday has   commercialised season, we take it at face value, cherishing the opportunity to spend
                                            become so commercialised that there   quality time with loved ones on this national public holiday.
                                            can be societal pressure amongst kids,
                                                                             Thai Christmas vs. British Christmas
                                            or even parents, to participate in a

                                            host of activities that one might not   Growing up in Thailand, Christmas looked quite different. Turkeys weren’t easy to
                                            be comfortable with. Yet, the key word is   come by, so we never had the traditional full Christmas dinner. Though Christmas
                                            ‘comfort.’ It is okay to have limitations on   is not a public holiday there, it is still celebrated in a commercial sense. We would
                                            what is celebrated and what is not, and   decorate a small tree at home, exchange gifts, and enjoy Secret Santa with friends.
                                            everyone should respect each other’s   However, festive pub meals – so quintessentially British – weren’t really a part of the
                                            wishes on how they want to celebrate.   Thai Christmas experience.
                                            The holiday season should not be spoiled
                                                                             Now, living in England, I love embracing the traditional British Christmas with all
                                            for anyone.
                                                                             its customs, but I also cherish the unique ways we celebrated back in Thailand. Each
                                            Nani and I View Santa Differently  adds its own special layer to the festive season.

                                            Hailing from the Sikh community, I was
        always told that we should not be celebrating Christmas as it is not a part of our
        culture. Additionally, Christmas also falls during the martyrdom days of our Four
        Sahibzaades and other Sikh martyrs. Many elders believe that the celebration of
        Christmas overpowers an important milestone in our very own history.
        My personal belief, whilst keeping aside the religious aspect with utmost respect, is

        that I wanted to fill the festive season with positive vibes around me and bring in joy

        and warmth for myself and my family. Being someone who loves to explore different
        cultures, I wanted to embrace the fun and secular aspect of the festive spirit. I have
        convinced my family to get a small Christmas tree at home, and we use Christmas
        as an excuse to have a special dinner or a get-together.




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