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Looking back, I feel bad

                                                                                       about changing my name,

                                                                                       losing my identity, but I

                                                                                       had to do it to assimilate
                                                                                       in my profession and in

                                                                                       my new country



























                 Kanwaljit came to another crossroad in his life in northern   Through his journey from Korat to Eureka, Kenneth says he
                 California. “Looking back, I feel bad about changing my   met all the right people at the right time to get all those jobs so
                 name, losing my identity, but I had to do it to assimilate in my   he could succeed. “I have no regrets,” he says. “But if I knew
                 profession and in my new country,” he says. On the Medical   then what I know now, I probably would not have done it. For
                 Board of Trustees of the tribe, he met Jennifer Singleton, and   me to compete in my profession I had to be better than any
                 asked her if he could use her surname. “She told me it would be   white counterpart. I had to do better or be equal to be given any
                 her honour.”  Kanwaljit became Kenneth Singh Singleton.  preferential treatment.

                 Kenneth came back home to Thailand in 1976, and all was   Despite his tiresome and challenging journey, Kenneth feels
                 forgiven with his family, as his father was proud of all the   that his path wouldn’t be as fruitful in any other country. “The
                 success he had attained on his own. Later that year, he married   U.S. is the land of opportunity,” he clarifies. “I went there with
                 a Thai-Indian from Bangkok, Ravinder Kaur Virasingh, and   US$1,000 in my pocket 40 years ago and I went to all those
                 returned to the Hoopa Valley tribe with his new wife. “At first, she   schools, to the reservation and now I’m in Eureka where I
                 became bored,” he says. “There’s not much to do in a town with   started my own practice.”
                 only 900 people.  So she volunteered, got hired by the tribe and
                 went to nursing school. She’s now a nurse practitioner.”  It wasn’t   Kenneth Singh Singleton is a U.S. immigrant success story.  He
                 long after, in the late 1970s, that Kenneth and his wife moved   and his wife have two daughters. The oldest, Emilie, graduated
                 to Eureka about 70 miles away, where he gradually set up his   from UC Davis with a degree in civil engineering and now works
                 dental practice there.                                for a consulting engineering firm in Folsam, California.  His
                                                                       younger daughter, Anita, is currently in college in Los Angeles.
                                                                       “America is the most giving country, and I am proud of being an
                                                                       American. What I did to get to America would be hard to do now,
                                                                       but only in America can you go empty-handed and make it, as
                                                                       the system is fair. My parents are proud of me, and all is forgiven.
                                                                       But I do miss my family back in Thailand.”





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