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fter watching  Live to 100:
                                                                                         Secrets of the Blue Zones (2023)
                                                                                         on Netflix, I was inspired to find
                                                                                         others in the community who’d
                                                                                         lived to 100 (or rather, are close
                                                                                         and still going strong), to ask
                                                                                          them for some pearls of wisdom.
                                                                                         Not only did I get insight into
                                                                                          the secrets of their longevity,
                                                                                         but they also gave me a peek
                                                                                         into their lives well lived, their
                                                                                          precious memories, and other
                                                                                          priceless advice.




              Wisdom from superagers
                  in the community.

                   B Y R UB Y SIRINAR ANG


                                                               I vividly recall the events when World War II started around the 1940s.
                                                               I heard sirens, and my parents held our hands and showed us the way
                                                                to hide safely. I wasn’t scared because I had my parents with me all the
                                                                time. I also remember bad floods, which made my family temporarily
                                                               relocate to a 2-3 storey Thai-style wooden house until the water receded.

                                                               What technological and social changes have you lived through?

                                                               There wasn’t much technology available when I was a child. Back then,
                                                               news was communicated in the Indian community via announcements
                JANAK GAMBHIR                                  made at the Hindu Samaj Bangkok. In fact, the invention of the
                       85 years old                             telephone occurred years after my wedding! It was a big deal to have
                        Housewife                              black and white TV, which eventually gave way to colour TV. My kids
                                                                got me a smartphone four or five years ago and showed me how to
           What are some of your earliest childhood            use WhatsApp so we could stay in touch. But beyond just making a
           memories? Any historical events that you remember?  connection, I discovered a new realm of knowledge. I’ve since developed

           I remember growing up in a loving and respectful environment, and   a strong interest in, and curiosity about, Indian politics.

           being 3rd eldest among 10 siblings, I distinctly recall that I was my   Those days, social gatherings were usually in people’s homes. We had
           eldest brothers’ favourite sister, and a mother figure to the younger  ‘plathoo’ parties, later Tupperware parties, and then ‘penang pot’ parties.
           ones. I used to love singing, and in fact performed on stage in school   Wedding ceremonies were simpler then, with most held in homes and
           and won first 1st prize, a THB 20 reward. The name of the song was   main rituals in the Hindu Samaj Bangkok. Of course, over the years,
           “Nirbal Se Ladai Balwan Ki – Toofan aur Diya”, and I still remember   our social way of life has changed dramatically, and celebrations are
            the lyrics today!                                  more fancy and glamorous and celebrated more in hotels.
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