Page 56 - MASALA Magazine Vol.15 Issue 3 | February - March 2024

Dads in the community reveal
how they spend quality time with
their children of different ages.
B Y NINA PHICHIT SINGH

recently came across a quote that said fathers spend three times as much time
with their children than they did 50 years ago. Times have really changed, and
fathers do partake in many more activities with their children. I was inspired to
compose this piece because my husband, a true workaholic, has really stepped
up since the day my daughter was born. I often hear him say ‘no’ to plans or
meetings that were an immediate ‘yes’ to be able to carve out time for our daughter.

He’s comfortable to take her to the park himself and put her to sleep when I
am too exhausted. He may not be able to change her diapers outstandingly or
partake in her potty training as a full-time working man, but he plans activities
and events for her with her development in mind (striking a balance of creativity,
exercise and new-found fascinations for her); from seeing art installations at
Studio Ghibli’s exhibitions, to learning about penguins at Sea Life, and of course
blissful play at the park. Their father-daughter bond is strong and full of affection
and adoration. Sometimes, I can even hear him on his work call at 2am with
his overseas clients discussing the best books to read to their toddlers or trading
high chair recommendations!

We can attest that fathers play a crucial role in their children’s development
and upbringing. To honour all fathers in this men’s issue, I talk to four
working fathers about their most special moments with their children.